Courtship vs dating blog
Courtship vs dating blog - sermons about dating
And quite often, even if there’s no decline in the time and effort a man invests in a woman, eventually she gets used to it, takes it for granted, and will expect even more time and effort from the man to continue to feel desired.
And just like men, women wouldn’t hesitate to say exactly what they wanted, and to actively pursue their desires.But once they’ve been accepted and have gotten what they wanted, women will start to notice a decline in the amount of time men spend on them.There’s no way any guy will be able to keep up the unnatural amounts of time he initially puts into winning a girl over.And what usually happens is that women interpret the decline in effort as a sign that their partner doesn’t “love” them anymore, or at least not as much as in the beginning.But in reality what happens is that the time the guy will spend with a girl just drops to more natural amounts, which allows him to also pursue other interests he may have in life.This is why when I meet a girl that I’m interested in, I always tell her, in no uncertain words, that I’m interested .
Especially when I see that she wants to talk to me often and starts to use more of my time, I try to establish immediately what she wants and what I can expect from her. I explain to her that I can’t spend a lot of time with her, unless she’s willing to admit that she’s interested in me and can give herself completely.
In addition, recent research, discussed in the fifth part of my Understanding Women series, has shown that men and normal women (i.e.
women who aren’t influenced by society’s brainwash geared towards sexual suppression) don’t differ from each other when it comes to their sexuality and sex drive.
When it comes to courtship — and for the purposes of this post I’ll treat dating as a form of courtship — people generally expect men to pursue women.
There are elaborate procedures established in society that men need to follow in order to impress and convince women to allow men to get closer and intimate with them.
So under normal and natural conditions there’s absolutely no need for courtship.